I am burnt out from emotionally supporting my husband. Should I leave him? | Leading questions
You might hurt him terribly in the short term, Eleanor Gordon-Smith writes. But sometimes sparing people pain isn’t what’s good for them Read more Leading
You might hurt him terribly in the short term, Eleanor Gordon-Smith writes. But sometimes sparing people pain isn’t what’s good for them Read more Leading questions I am deeply conflicted about whether to separate from my husband of 20 years, yet I am deeply burnt out from supporting him.
He arrived as a refugee, spoke little English at the time, is from a very different culture to mine and has, as yet, untreated ADHD and PTSD. After much coaxing he agreed to couples counselling but we have now exhausted two therapists to no avail.
If I decide to separate I know that I will be far more supported by friends and family than he will be. Continue reading...
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