This is how we do it: ‘My ex didn’t find me attractive after I put on weight. With Denzel, I finally feel loved’
Denzel, 46 double quotation mark She’s brought a different side to my life I didn’t know existed I think Sarita brings the best out in
Denzel, 46 double quotation mark She’s brought a different side to my life I didn’t know existed I think Sarita brings the best out in me. From the beginning, we’ve been very open when talking about sex and what we like to do. Nothing is taboo and there’s no judgment. I feel free to be myself and she’s very open and understanding. I know she’s got insecurities around her body, but I try to reassure her as much as I can. I find her sexy and I love her for who she is. I’ve also got insecurities – we all do. But we talk very openly about this and don’t feel judged. We are just happy to be naked in front of each other. I had previously been married for almost 20 years, but the relationship broke down and towards the end was sexless. After that, I made sure I was mentally ready to move forward and happy in myself, and wasn’t coming into a new relationship with too much baggage. I wanted to start with a clean slate. When you feel happy in yourself, that affects your sex life. double quotation mark The way she talks during se she could read the shopping list and I’d still be turned on I think Sarita has helped me understand myself, sexually. She’s brought a different side to my life I didn’t know existed, with new experiences like Tantric sex and using toys. We talk about sex all the time and I don’t feel afraid to ask her anything. I haven’t always had this attitude; with Sarita it’s different because we get on so well.
For example, I don’t have a foot fetish, but I like hers. We also massage each other a lot, which was new to me. It’s so relaxing and I find I can’t stop touching her. I’ve never felt like that before. Once we tried Tantric sex where you just stare at each other. It was weird at first, but then I felt this emotion I’d never felt before, like I wanted to cry. And the way she talks during se she could read the shopping list and I’d still be turned on. We’ve been together for two years, and have our individual lives, but we come together and work well as a team, both in and out of the bedroom. As we live separately, most times we meet we’ll have se about six times a week. It’s always sensual and never feels rushed. Share your experience If you’re keen to talk to us about your sex lives you can get in touch by filling in the form below. It is very important that both sexual partners are happy to participate. Please share your story if you are 18 or over, anonymously if you wish. For more information please see our terms of service and privacy policy Tell us here Your responses, which can be anonymous, are secure as the form is encrypted and only the Guardian has access to your contributions. We will only use the data you provide us for the purpose of the feature and we will delete any personal data when we no longer require it for this purpose. For alternative ways to get in touch securely please see our tips guide First name of partner one First name of partner two Length of relationship Contact number or email address of partner one Please include your country's area code if outside of the UK.
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